Harassment of women gamers

The gaming world is a cesspit of maladjusted, comically aggressive, emotionally (and maybe actually) adolescent males who have a deep fear and distrust of women. The problematic gamers are, naturally, almost exclusively male – and no doubt skew towards the young side. No-one’s surprised by that. I’m not surprised.

I’m with Matt.



23 thoughts on “Harassment of women gamers”

  1. I can only imagine the vitriol that Matt has incoming at this very moment. It’ll get linked on some teen gamer site and he’s off to the races. The good news is that it’ll be filled with misspellings and text speak and thus easy to filter out. Just filter ” [Uu] ” and you can knock out half the crap. Some day the autosexuals will leave their parents basement bunkers, that are loaded with Kraft mac&cheese and Monster, and be burned by the sunlight.

  2. Important difference – male gamers who point this crap out get far far less of a rough time afterwards than female gamers.

  3. Society has done a tragically awful job civilizing our young men. Bad manners is a difficult thing to expunge when shaming is no longer a tool in your toolbox. I’m not referring to the kind of social media circus that explodes when someone fails at being “Sarah Silverman”.

  4. I love how alpha males like Jim
    going to just tell the nerds to just do it.

    It is a shame that Jim doesn’t understand
    what Beta males aka nerd aka geek is all about.

    Women are designed by Evolution to
    like only Alpha Males who are the big bad who
    can bull shit. So Women don’t like the smell
    of Beta Males.

    It is simple as that.
    The Bull Shit that all nerd has to do is get
    little more testosterone and brain transplant
    then he will be able to talk to women
    is just plain stupid.

    All their life Nerds have created an environment
    where women are artificial be it game, port, computer
    simulation, etc.
    Now you are encroaching their space and you
    want them to crawl under another rock once again.

  5. Nerds are bullied in every facet of life.
    The World is run by Quaterback and Cheerleaders.

    If you bully the nerds they have no choice but to be
    sociopath.
    Game World is their territory.
    What are women doing there, not looking for husbands
    I presume.

    You are not the sane one. Go take any kind of psychological test.

  6. “A man is given the choice between loving women and understanding them.” — Ninon de Lenclos quotes (French courtesan)

    “It takes a woman twenty years to make a man of her son, and another woman twenty minutes to make a fool of him.” — Helen Rowland.

    “Does a cocaine addict love cocaine or the high.
    now substitute cocaine with women and you will
    get the answer why Men would distrust women.” — Anonymous

    It seem the author is not a man when asking such
    silly question as why men distrust women.

  7. The Veterans Administration has given me a number of psychological tests, and I make no claim to sanity. You may be correct about bullying and its effects, ergo we should not be bullying women or anyone else.

  8. Not everyone is welcome everywhere.
    It has always been and forever will be true.

    No amount of posturing and mud slinging from self appointed intellectual leaders will change that.
    There will be trolling, taunting, self righteous indignation and after everyone tires and bores of the subject, nothing will have changed.

    Those who have the stomach to go where they are not welcome will be fine. Those who do not will give up and find other venues to explore.

  9. Nope. This behavior by gamers is indistinguishable from gangsters assaulting strangers who wander into a geography they claim as their own. You describe it as they are self-appointed “protectors” … of something. It isn’t theirs. No amount of imitated alpha posturing makes it theirs.

  10. The bullied always have choices. Claiming the mantle of all the world’s bullied doesn’t give one a right to act against innocents.

  11. I think they only fair and equitable way to solve this and all of western civilization’s other problems is the mass extermination of white males. Happy Holidays!

  12. More misogynist posturing.

    At the level of the individual, sure, not everyone is welcome everywhere. But when people start harassing gamers only because they are women, they are going to get called out and, eventually, shut down. Society is getting pretty tired of this. People who harass female gamers, or defend the harassing of female gamers, are the moral equivalent of people who attacked blacks when they tried to sit at the same lunch counter with whites. Because, you know, not everyone is welcome everywhere.

  13. The world is run by quarterbacks, so gamers should attack female gamers? That’s your argument, and it’s both stupid and offensive.

    And just because you’re a loser doesn’t mean you’re a nerd. Nerds are smart; it’s a defining characteristic. You, as is clear from your posts, are not smart.
    Pro-tip: harassing women won’t make you any smarter. It won’t even make you look smarter.

  14. Most of these comments make me despair about the innate goodness of people consuming games, and I say this as an industry professional.

    Women are not some mysterious gender with unknowable motives. We’re just people. And, guys, if you think you felt bullied as a kid, you should try spending 10 seconds watching your wife, your sister, or your female friend on XBLA. It is so frequently a horrible, demoralizing experience.

  15. It’s clearly distinguishable by the line of legality and that makes all the difference in the world and not your imagined posturing.

  16. That was discrimination put into law.
    This is not.
    You have the right to refuse to engage with me and to taunt me into leaving you alone no matter why. It’s irrelevant if you’re racist, sexist or whatever-ist.

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